Current Mood:
Angry & 
Confused
In my life, I’ve had my share of relationships and in most of them, they all ended bad. Either they were killed or we got into a huge argument over nothing. Months go by and I don’t talk or see this person and out the blue they call me or text me and tell me how great of a woman I am and how they shouldn’t have let me go. That they now realize how good a person, how good of a friend, how good of a woman I am to them. How I’m always there by their side, always have their back no matter what. Quite frankly, I’m tired of this happening. Yes, it’s good for someone to tell you, you’re a great woman and all of that but, why can’t these men see it when we’re together. They realize this shit after the fact, after I’ve moved on and don’t give two shits about them. The men I’ve dated are good men but they want you and 10 other females, for what, who fucking knows?! They want the good woman, the one they can take home to meet their parents/family and they keep the other 10 females around so they can brag to their boys or whatever b/c they don’t care about them much, hell, now that I think about it, they don’t care much about me either if they have to have them. -sighs- Men just confuse the hell out of me. I want to be with someone who knows what they have when they have me.
Ok, I realized I need to clarify something that Jane brought to my attention. When I meant by good men are: have a good job, nice future ahead of them, good personality. The being unfaithful part is the reason why we’re aren’t together anymore and will never be together. I will remain friends with them though, just a relationship is not our thing.
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Not to discredit your greatness, but of course they are going to contact you & call you great, they can’t hit you up & still have a grudge - at least not at first. Instead of getting flattered by the ‘nice shit’ exes have to say, I (not always but most times) get offended that they haven’t realized it’s time to bow out of my life gracefully. You’ve moved on, & probably are happy in your own world when these fools hit you up. People have radar for happiness sometimes… about them being good men but cheaters - uhmm then they aren’t good men. Maybe these boys hit you up because they think you are one of those females who’ll say ‘yea he cheats but he’s good to me’ & look the other way. I’ve noticed a lot of young men look for this in females they ‘wife’ because they can have the benefits of a down ass chick plus get away with murder. (how would I know though, I hope you aren’t getting offended) Just brush these suckers off - they are exes for a reason. & you are right, someone should cherish you while they’ve got you. ♥
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